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‘Wrong’ Card Deck Teaches Unexpected Lesson

As a practical-minded (and not particularly flush) retiree, my online shopping excursions are few and far between. Despite this, last week I just couldn’t stop myself from ordering a very cool-looking Bicycle playing card deck I’d had my eye on. Imagine my shock (not to mention annoyance) when I discovered that what I ordered was not what I received…

Of course this sad realization occurred after I had foolishly ripped off the cellophane packaging, discarded the shipping box and date-stamped the deck’s arrival date onto an inside flap of the tuck box…

‘That’s just great,’ I grumbled miserably. ‘Now I’m stuck with them…’

Feeling miffed and more than a  little ticked off, I unceremoniously dumped the cards on the kitchen table and after a fast and furious shuffle commanded them to answer my question: ” Why Did I Get YOU Instead of the Card Deck I Ordered??!!”

Despite my rude, insensitive and downright mean-spirited demand, the cards not only replied, they replied in a way that pretty much blew me away.

Question: “Why Did I Get YOU Instead of the Card Deck I Ordered??!”

 

'Wrong Deck' teaches unexpected lesson: 6 of Clubs + 10 of Spades + 6 of Diamonds + Queen of Hearts + 5 of Clubs with King of Spades above and Ace of Hearts below.
‘Wrong’ Card Deck teaches unexpected lesson: 6 of Clubs + 10 of Spades + 6 of Diamonds + Queen of Hearts + 5 of Clubs with King of Spades above and Ace of Hearts below. © 2020 Living With Cards

Bicycle Dragon Playing Cards

I had to step away from the spread and regroup myself before I felt calm enough to see if these cards had anything to tell me. Believe me, I wasn’t expecting much.

Silly me.

6 of Clubs speaks to conflict resolution, communications, good counsel, trusted advice, listening and paying attention while 10 of Spades refers to problems, negativity, fear, worry, disappointment and hang-ups that keep you from reaching set goals. 6 of Diamonds can be electronic communication (texts, blog posts, emails, etc.) or simply using your computer (especially with 6 of Clubs in the spread).

Queen of Hearts is empathic, emotionally sensitive, trustworthy, honest and supportive while 5 of Clubs is a card of action and change.

Can you see a theme developing?!

In direct response to my question the Line of Five was telling me that this particular card deck was highly skilled in giving pertinent, accurate, insightful advice to those who may be troubled with fears, anxieties or problems in an empathetic, sensitive way that could help them orchestrate positive change.

Now let’s check out the vertical line:

King of Spades in the Above Position (on my mind) objectively pointed out that I was being highly judgmental and jumping to conclusions and negative judgments when in reality there was every indication that I’d wind up feeling quite at home with this deck  — Ace of Hearts in the Below Position (something I’m not aware of or don’t want to think about) and I’ll be able to use the deck effectively to dispense good advice.

 

Excuse me while I go hide myself in a closet of shame & chagrin for a minute…

 

Oh. And in case you were wondering which card deck I had originally ordered, I have to tell you I can hardly remember — it certainly isn’t on my short list of must-haves anymore…

Blessings,

Mary Hawkins

[Note: I originally learned the excellent Overview Spread several years ago from the prolifically authoritative & instructional The Art of Cartomancy website ( @jdavidacuri ), a treasure-trove of rich cartomantic knowledge…]


Card Reading 101: Predictions and Probable Outcomes Part 2

In my previous post I discussed the correlation between predictions and probable outcomes and cautioned against inadvertently creating self-fulfilling prophecies for yourself.

Despite what I said, the ability to predict with the cards is a valuable skill and one well worth learning. If you’d like to explore that path, you may find the following guidelines useful:

Draw cards every day.

A time-tested way to learn how a particular card system speaks to you is to perform and record a daily draw in the morning, interpret it, then record feedback at the end of the day. If you make this daily ritual part of your routine, your ability to read cards correctly will greatly improve.

Record your daily card draws!

What is the point of pulling some cards, making an awesome, intuitive connection that actually pans out correctly in real life, only to “forget” how the card combination spoke to you? Make it a habit to record your daily card draws!

Record your daily card draws in a dedicated journal

The easiest way to record daily draws (especially if you’re short on time in the morning) is to use one of those weekly planners that has spaces for each day of the week in a two-page spread. All you need to do is jot down your daily cards in the space for the day and add your interpretations or predictions. Because a years’ worth of dates are already printed in the book, you get the extra bonus of being able to record a years’ worth of daily draws all in one book, making it easy to go back and see how things played out. Pick a planner that “speaks” to you; one you will enjoy using.

(If time is not an issue, or if you prefer, you could purchase and use a lined journal or notebook dedicated to recording your daily draws.)

Consider using a weekly planner to record your daily tarot card or Lenormand card predictions - http://livingwithcards.com
Consider using a weekly planner to record your daily tarot card or Lenormand card predictions

At-A-Glance Vienna Weekly and Monthly Planner 2015, Wirebound, 5.5 x 8.5 Inch Page Size (622-200)

Only pull 2 or 3 cards for your daily draw.

One card is hard to interpret and more than 3 is overkill. Record the cards and jot down a brief interpretation and 1 or 2 predictions. At day’s end, review your entry. What actually happened during your day? How did the cards play out? Was your prediction accurate or were you way off base?

Add your card combinations or interpretations to your favorite reference books.

Jot down card combinations or interpretations that prove accurate into the margins of favorite reference books and place your initials and the date in parentheses. That way, over time, you will have developed rich, personalized and customized, master reference books of your own. (I write in the margins of Sylvie Steinbach’s Secrets of the Lenormand Oracle and Trish MacGregor & Phyllis Vega’s Power Tarot.)

Practice, practice, practice!

The key to improving your ability to predict correctly is consistent, daily practice. Don’t let early failures or faulty predictions deter you. Over time you will find your “hit rate” improving. As with any other skill you may be trying to develop, daily, consistent practice is essential.

Consider recording your card combination interpretations in the margins of a favorite reference book. http://livingwithcards.com
Consider recording your card combination interpretations in the margins of a favorite reference book.

Predictions and Probable Outcomes

You may also find, much to your amazement and delight, that your improved ability to predict with tarot cards, Lenormand cards, playing cards or oracle decks helps enormously in tracking your own subconscious or unconscious motives, beliefs and thoughts, making it easier to practice conscious creation as you attempt to manifest good things into your life. Because you already know that a probable outcome is just that: a probable outcome, you will develop the ability to catch yourself in a negative mindset, question your motives, thoughts and beliefs and make another (hopefully more positive) choice for yourself.

Blessings,

Mary Hawkins

Card Reading 101: Predictions and Probable Outcomes Part 1

It’s natural to be attracted to, or intrigued by, the uncanny ability Tarot Cards, Lenormand Cards, Playing Cards and Oracle decks seem to possess. Logical or not, cards appear to be able to predict the future. That’s what draws many people to card divination in the first place. We want to know what’s going to happen today, whether he or she likes us, will we get the job, what if the money doesn’t come through in time, etc., etc.

If you are even semi-serious about card reading, that particular  mindset can be less than helpful. This is because any card draw, using any deck, for any question, at any given moment in time, is simply reflecting the prevailing energies in motion at the time of the question.

In other words, 9 times out of 10, what you are seeing is a probable future and not one that is set in stone.

Furthermore, if you don’t monitor them, your own thoughts, beliefs and feelings about the message(s) you got from the cards will influence what actually transpires. Sometimes, without even realizing it, you wind up setting a “self-fulfilling prophecy” into motion. This can have either good or bad results depending on whether your thoughts, beliefs and feelings about the question asked and answer received are predominantly positive or negative.

If up until now you’ve been reading cards from a basically predictive mindset, you don’t need to stop. But you might want to consider exploring a different layer of information the cards may be suggesting. Are they really answering your question as you stated it or could they be answering another, underlying, question?

I’ve found that’s often the case and if I dig around a little, and/or revise my question based on fresh insights I’ve gotten from the spread, I can ferret out information and advice that’s inordinately more helpful than the “answer” to the question I originally asked.

Blessings,

Mary Hawkins